Accelerating Fast

It's been a long time since i last blogged, it's been more than a month.
Everything has been quite mundane for a while, therefore i didn't even bother to update anything. So much so that I created excitement in my life. Incredibly major decision, probably one of the biggest decisions in one's life...

I've been pestering Hubby about buying a flat. And one day after viewing 2 apartments recommended by the agent, we went ahead to sign the documents for the 4-room flat near cck central.

It may seem like a hasty and impulsive decision, but i seriously feel that everything is within our means. Most of the payment will be by cpf, thus if both of us continue our job, everything will be under control.

As much as I'd like to move into my own nest, I'll think on the practical side and continue staying at our newly renovated room, with his parents. We shall rent out the apartment and bank the rental fee into our savings account. And with that, further plans can be drawn to a nearer date.

Looking forward to our future.......

"The ONE"

Time flies, and i'm already done with my 1st Recurrent to extend my flying license. That means i've cleared 1 year of flying with my 3rd airline.

To recall this past one year, everything went on smoothly in all aspects of my life. Happy with my job, happy with my relationship, happy with my family, generally happy with everything around me... And I'm really glad that we started our hobby in bowling.

Today, i bought my 4th bowling ball called "The One". Sounds exaggerating to those who's not into this game, but it's really a good feeling to be able to play better with another ball that suits the condition of a different lane.
I went straight to the alley with my brother after we got our new balls, and the result is worth the price!

So excited to use my new ball now, i hope i dun get called up for my 2 days standby.
*Fingers crossed*

Happily Married

Finally and officially Mrs Peng...

With the customary wedding to come, there seemed to be never ending discussions and decisions to make. The name list is never ready. And the money never seem to be enough...

When that's settled, we have to decide on resale flat or new flat. And then, money again. And with the recession getting worse each day, i'm getting more paranoid over all these things....

But of course being Mrs Peng, i have the privilege to hide under the title and push everything to the MAN! My Man!

Counting down... 3 more days..

To update on the single's and master's league.....
Hiak hiak hiak..... Janice Chan Yan Li won the Ladies' Master's Champion!!!
So proud of myself. I really became an overnight Star. All of a sudden some people seemed to be close to me, especially my "so-called" team-mates.

Anyway, 2 more days to checking into our chalet at Aranda and 3 more days to officially being Mrs Peng. Kinda excited, but not the thrilled kinda feeling, more like "it's gonna be fun" kinda feeling.

Went to check out on the wedding banquet, and the thoughts of walking down the aisle in the gown is kinda scary. Freaks me out. But i'm really looking forward to getting a good deal.
Can't make up my mind on the venue. Wanna get something not so lousy, but on the other hand wanna be on budget. It's really a headache.

If anyone has good lobang, pls pls pls let me know k..... Need lots of help and suggestions on that.... not like solemnisation.... hmmmm......

Ladies' Champion

I realised that lack of sleep can create war between 2 person. The patience that one usually have drops to zero when rest is insufficient.

Anyway, i finally went for my first Sunday bowling league for 2009. Dearie went last week and became an overnight star. I did not lose out much to him, cos i kinda perform well today as well. I guess we really make a perfect couple in this sense.

We'll be going for the singles and masters next weekend, and i can feel the pressure to perform again, cos those people have high hopes in us, the rising stars....

Uncertainties

I hate to feel that everything is just one-sided.
Can't help thinking that i'm the only one being excited about it. Or perhaps to say that we're excited over different things.

I'm excited, so much that i started to feel frighten. High expectations make me paranoid.

Now i'm scared.

I'm not sure anymore.

~2009~

Finally back after the super long flight, and being away from dearie for so many days. This flight is 9 days long, but we're kinda separated for 15 days, including the 2 days of touch and go between our flights. Now that i'm back with 4 clear days in Singapore, Mr Peng has to serve 4 full days of Reservist.

Anyway, the arrival of february has been a long awaited moment. The month that I'll finally change my status to "Missus"!
I missed this year's CNY, but the line ups' enough to make my year a wonderful one. Our ROM, our couple-coding and our new baby, Honda Fit.....

With all these to entertain us for 2009, I guess we'll leave our Customary ceremony and our new flat to a later date......

28th Feb 2009

It's getting a bit exciting for me now. Trying to get everything together.
And if nothing goes wrong, our ROM will be set on 28th February 2009!!!

We're planning to do it at Aranda Country club, the same place i celebrated my 21st birthday. Just a simple buffet with frens and family, and the signing of the "No turning back Certificate"...

After breaking the news, i've received comments like "we're too young" etc, but how old is too old and how young is too young? Personally i feel that it's up to the couple's individual character to determine whether a marriage will last. Of course age plays a big part as well, in terms of maturity level, but it's not the only factor.

As a matter of fact, my close friends around me are mostly around my age, and are all having long term relationships and settling down early like me. And to me, they seem to be able to last a life-time.
So i have total confident in this relationship, as well as in my dearest friends' relationships, and i'm looking forward to make this big step....

Bored bored bored

I'm so bored that i decided to blog.
Dear Jinglin suggested that i should blog when i've nothing to do since i haven't done so for so long. Hee. So here i am, blogging again.

My mind is filled with all the ROM stuff these few days. I kept asking myself:"Am i really getting married???" It feels so unreal. And the fact that i'm so excited, makes me feel pathetic, cos it feels like a one-sided thingy. Sounds weird, but i really feel this way.

Went around looking at wedding bands alone, and seeing other couple browsing around as well, makes me feel uncomfortable. Maybe becos he's not around and not becos he didn't wanna be around, that's the only excuse i can make up.

Anyway, i'm bored alone at home, loads of free time to think of nonsense, so bear with all my rubbish....

Funny Daddy

My dad is a funny guy. Not many people will describe him tat way i guess, cos he is funny in his unique way.

My dad is a sternly quiet person when he's sober, but when he's drunk, he talks like there's no tmr. But the thing is, he blabbers rubbish deep from his heart.

I broke the news to him about my ROM 2 days ago, but he didn't even say a word(cos he's sober). Just now when he came home from his drinking session, he started asking me why bf's family didn't come over to discuss the matter. He seemed pretty upset about it and i just kept quiet.

He also mentioned that his daughter,which is me, is not a nobody-want-gal, so i should be treasured and acknowledged.
Although he sounded kinda full-of-rubbish, i can feel how much he treasured me and i'm really touched, cos i know my dad really loves me a lot....

Wedding Bells....

Ding Dong Ding Dong!!!

This year's X'mas is our 7th Year Anniversary. Finally the 7th year itch is over. We've been through rough patches and happy moments, now we're finally gonna settle down together.

He proposed in his not-so-romantic way, the way that i'd imagined him to propose, cos it's just him. If he was to suprise me with something special, i might not be able to react appropriately.

Well, i guess i'll have to accept the way it is since i've decided the person to be him. Oh, and anyway, i got a Trilogy ring from him, the ring tat i used to love years ago.

The next will be our wedding bands.....

Love is Blind

I had a bad dream last night. Not really a nightmare. Just something scarily real.

I dreamt tat i had a bf who has another gf, meaning he's a two-timer. I was so in love with him tat i did not mind sharing him with another woman. My heart was hurting badly even after i woke up from the dream.

I came to realise that i'm just another typical stupid woman.

Vacation not...

I am supposed to be going on my vacation tmr. It's supposed to be my first holiday since i started work in my new company. It's my first annual leave but in the end, i'm gonna be stuck in singapore.
Sad Sad Sad....